When it comes to engagement rings, the traditional diamond solitaire isn’t the only option. For those with a taste for the dramatic and the unconventional, Gothic engagement rings offer a darkly romantic and uniquely beautiful alternative. Steeped in history and symbolism, these rings are perfect for couples who want their commitment to stand out in the most memorable way.
History
When we think of the gothic aesthetic, you might be thinking of the 80s music-based subculture, the post-punk gothic rock of Britain. Or maybe you’re thinking of Goths who dress in all black, and find beauty in the darker things in life. Whatever you’re thinking we have a little history lesson for you!
The Gothic Period
The Gothic period, spanning from the 12th to the 16th centuries, was originally an era marked by ornate architecture, elaborate art, and intricate craftsmanship. Originating in France, Gothic style emphasized vertical lines, intricate details, and dramatic, almost otherworldly beauty. This period influenced various forms of art, including jewellery design, which featured bold and intricate elements, dark metals, and richly coloured gemstones. It’s not quite 80s rock or macabre but it is that same darker aesthetic!
Victorian Gothic Period
The Victorian Gothic period, spanning Queen Victoria’s reign from 1837 to 1901, deeply influenced fashion with its dark, dramatic aesthetic and intricate details. Victorian Gothic jewellery featured materials such as jet, onyx, and dark gemstones like garnet and amethyst, intricately crafted with motifs from Gothic architecture and literature. This jewellery conveyed sentiments of mourning, love, and spirituality, leaving a lasting influence on contemporary fashion. Mourning jewellery from this era are a great example of sentiment embedded within these beautifully crafted pieces.
What Does a Dark Ring Mean?
A dark engagement ring or wedding ring is thought to symbolize deep, passionate love and everlasting commitment. A black ring can symbolise power and strength with a touch of sophistication. They defy traditional norms and represent a relationship that is unique and steadfast.
Choosing a darker ring indicates a willingness to embrace the unconventional and a desire to express individuality. These rings often appeal to those who find beauty in the contrast between light and dark and appreciate the depth and intensity that darker elements bring.
Darker Stones
One of the most striking features of a Gothic engagement rings is their use of darker stones. Check out the options:
Black Diamond
The black diamond is a rare but beautiful choice! Their opaque, midnight hue adds an element of intrigue and sophistication, making them perfect for those who want a ring that is both elegant and unconventional. The black diamond is a popular choice amongst celebrities, but more on that later…
Onyx
Consider onyx for a deep, black detail. We have a beautiful range of antique black onyx rings, set against white diamonds, making the diamonds really pop! It is said to absorb negative energy and transform it into positive vibrations, making it an excellent choice for a couple embarking on a lifelong journey together. The smooth, polished surface of onyx adds a sleek and timeless appeal to any ring design.
Sapphire
While sapphires are typically associated with a deep blue hue, they can also be found in darker shades for that more gothic aesthetic. Sapphire engagement rings are known for their durability and beauty and make a great choice if you’re not 100% committed to the darkness of a black diamond or onyx. They symbolize wisdom, loyalty, and nobility, making them an ideal choice for a ring that signifies a lifelong commitment.
Celebrity Gothic Engagement rings
Several celebrities have embraced the Gothic engagement ring trend, bringing it into the spotlight and inspiring others to consider this unique style.
Carrie Bradshaw
Whilst fictional, the character Carrie Bradshaw in Sex and the City sported an iconic engagement ring when Mr Big proposed. Her on-screen boyfriend, Mr. Big, gave her a 5-carat black diamond engagement ring set in 18ct white gold, accented with 80 pave-set diamonds. When Carrie asks “why black?” he tells her that he chose the dramatic ring “because you’re not like anyone else”.
The ring was designed by Sarah Jessica Parker, the actress who plays Carrie, in collaboration with Patricia Field, the show’s costume designer, and Itay Malkin, a jewelry designer.
Notably, Carrie chose to wear this engagement ring on her actual ring finger, unlike the one from Aidan, which she famously wore on a chain around her neck, ‘closer to her heart’.
Gabriette Bechtel
1975’s lead singer Matty Healy recently proposed to model and singer Gabbriette with a stunning black engagement ring. Featuring a cushion cut black diamond, set in a diamond cluster ring, the piece perfectly reflects the couple’s distinctive style. After all, Gabbriette is well-known for her ‘90s grunge aesthetic, characterised by the models razor-thin eyebrows and dark wardrobe! Known for their edgy and unconventional tastes, the black diamond ring symbolizes their deep connection and individuality.
Kat Von D
The tattoo artist and makeup mogul’s engagement ring features a stunning black diamond solitaire claw set in relief to the centre of the design. The diamond is flanked to either side by platinum skulls that blend into the ring shank, in true Gothic aesthetic.
Shenae Grimes
“90210” actress received a stunning black diamond engagement ring from British model and musician Josh Beech. The 1-carat square-cut diamond, set in platinum with a halo setting, exudes timeless elegance. The couple married in May 2013 in England, where Grimes rebelled against tradition by wearing a unique black wedding dress that perfectly complemented her engagement ring.
Carmen Electra
Rocker Rob Patterson proposed to former Baywatch star Carmen Electra on her 36th birthday in April 2008 with a stunning 2-carat black diamond engagement ring. Set in a six-claw setting with a diamond pave band, the ring perfectly matched their unique style. Electra described it as “perfect for us” and “different.” Valued at approximately $100,000, the platinum ring is truly one of a kind.
We are loving seeing these darker gemstones take the spotlight in the world of trending engagement ring styles! Whilst diamonds have been a front runner for centuries, darker gemstones are certainly climbing the ranks. These rings make a bold statement, celebrating individuality and redefining tradition with their dramatic allure!
